Grief Work

 In my last "blog" I wrote about visions and plans. With life, the unexpected is to be expected, so we can expect that having a plan and visions will not always go according to "plan". We can be OK with that. We expect things to be permanent and stable. Not necessarily so! We accept the myth that, if only we could keep things as we want them to be by "doing everything right", that we will find a safe, secure, and comfortable place to spend the rest of our lives. For the most part,it is the uncertainty that scares us.